Prevention is key, but digital grooming can happen so silently that it’s difficult to detect. In a previous blog post, we shared tips on safeguarding your child’s virtual environment. Today, we want to guide you in case grooming has already occurred, or if there are warning signs that your child may be at risk.
Warning Signs to Watch For
Each child is different, but certain behavioral changes deserve attention:
- Sudden isolation or unexplained irritability
- Hiding their screen or avoiding conversations about online activity
- Increased use of devices at unusual hours
- Receiving gifts, money, or favors from someone you don’t know
- Fear or discomfort when receiving certain messages
These signs don’t always mean grooming is happening, but they are a call for care, listening, and support.
What to Do If You Suspect Grooming
Your response should be quick, empathetic, and careful. Here’s a step-by-step guide:
- Create a Safe Space to Talk
If your child opens up, listen without judgment. Make them feel safe to speak and gather the necessary information. - Save the Evidence
Don’t delete messages, screenshots, or chats. This information may be critical if you report the incident. - Block and Report the Contact
Block the suspected individual on all platforms and use the in-app reporting tools (on games, social media, or apps). - Report to Authorities
In Colombia, report online grooming to the Policía Nacional via CAI Virtual or by calling 123. You can also contact the Fiscalía or ICBF.
Seek Emotional Support
Grooming victims may need professional psychological support. Don’t hesitate to get expert guidance.
Support Beyond the Immediate Threat
At Renfort, we understand that after an incident like this, families and educators have many questions:
How do I rebuild trust? How can I talk about this without causing further harm? How do I avoid becoming overprotective?
In the family:
- Avoid blame or downplaying what happened. Shame can prevent healing.
- Review digital habits together—not as punishment, but as shared learning.
- Reinforce that your child can trust you. Emotional connection is the best future prevention.
Seek help from professionals—psychologists, counselors, and school staff can guide you.
At school:
A safe school environment not only prevents, but also acts. If you’re an educator or part of a school team:
- Watch for behavioral or academic changes.
- Offer safe and private spaces where students feel comfortable opening
- Follow established school protocols.
- Communicate with families sensitively and respectfully.
Additional Resources and Support
Here are some trusted sources for more information or help:
- Pantallas Amigas – Education for safe internet and social media use
- UNICEF – Grooming and Digital Protection – Global resources on children’s digital rights
At Renfort, we believe that real protection starts with connection. Technology may evolve, but caring and present guidance is still the best defense. If you need support or resources to act against grooming, reach out to our guidance teams or the appropriate authorities.
Written by: Laura Veloza, Grower at Renfort
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